Safety is instilled in us as childern, by our familys, friends, and schoolings.  Every parent wants their children to be Safe, so we build a large Safety net around them that last for life.  I am sure that we can all come up with a list of Safety  nets that have been put in place many years ago. 

When you want something you’ve never had , you must do something you’ve never done.  This like a Burning Desire if you have never expierenced a Burning Desire, you will have to do something that you have never done to get this Burning Desire.  A Burning Desire is a must to obtain a large goal (or beter put reach the top of a mountain.